“No matter what, no matter when, no matter who… any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet” -Hitch
I get a ton of questions about dating models, You know the really beautiful women of the world.. The 9’s and 10’s..
The question I get most often is ” How do I date a 10 if Im not good looking myself, Not in the model scene, like a photographer, or basically have nothing to offer her career.”
Fortunately those things don’t really matter to her.
If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t good enough to get a 10.
Ever felt like you weren’t her “type” because you didn’t have a ton of money or a path for her to expand her career.
If you’ve ever thought that they are different than other girls and you just wouldn’t know how to keep her feeling content with you.
Then Im here to help.
First of all, out of the three statements above, one is actually true.
They are different than other girls. Well most of them.
Career aside, Even if they aren’t models, Instagram girls, Actresses, Musicians, or any social status symbol, They are still HOT.
Which means they most likely grew up being treated differently than other girls. They grew up constantly being told they are beautiful, Getting special treatment, Gaining popularity, having the social power in their schools and with their friends.
These things factor into the people they become as they grow up. Whats this mean?
You just need to approach a relationship with her a little differently than you would someone who didn’t experience this life. Here are the five main areas to focus on to make sure those 9’s and 10’s want you above all others.
Challenge Her – All women need challenge to not only become attracted to you, But also to for a stronger emotional bond with you. However women of extreme beauty crave challenge in the men they choose as suiters, because they are rarely ever met with challenge. They are given everything. From compliments, to material objects, to their will. Whatever beautiful women want, there is usually someone willing to give it to them.
All this adds up to is she is so used to getting her way, with whatever she wants, And she doesn’t date the people that give her whatever she wants all the time, every time. She’s gonna date the man who challenges her, intellectually, emotionally, and physically.
Instead of taking her out to an expensive dinner like most any other guy would do given the opportunity with a gorgeous woman. Switch things up a bit, keep it fun, playful, and challenge her expectation of you.
Take her on a fun adventure instead, Take her to a unique, karaoke bar. Take her on a hike. Take her to play laser tag, or ride rollercoasters.
Just be different, fun, and challenge her perception.
Allow her social space – She needs it to grow, especially if her beauty is her career. – Realize that it is her job to be beautiful, socialize, network, and meet people. You need to give her that space to do her job. She will be meeting a ton of guys that all see her beauty just as you. She will be out to clubs, dinners, paid events where she is expected to be Fun and Flirty. You have to be able to handle this part of her life, and encourage it. Help her grow, Help her on her path to success, don’t hold her back because you don’t like it.
You either accept that it’s part of her or you don’t. If you don’t you won’t be around for long, However if you do, If you can support and encourage this lifestyle she will love you for it.
It’s about trust. You need to be able to trust her, as she trust you. If you can’t trust her to be faithful while doing her job you shouldn’t be with her anyway. But questioning her trustworthiness is a great way to send her running for the hills or someone else’s arms.
Trust. Support. Encourage. Grow.
Don’t Buy her shit – These women get gifts from men all the time trying to buy her attention. Trying to buy her affection. DOn’t do it. Thats not your job, You’re not one of the 99%, You’re the 1% and you don’t do that shit. You connect with her on an emotional, physical, level you don’t need to buy expensive shit to get her or keep her. In fact if you do buy her shit you will eventually no matter how much she likes you, fall into the same category as every single one of those other guys.
Be different. Realize and understand she gets enough things bought for her, she doesn’t need it or want it from you.
Don’t be jealous – Showing that you can be a little protective is not a bad thing, going overboard and showing signs of jealousy can be a very bad thing. Jealously is a terrible trait to have and I have never met a girl in my life that find’s it attractive. However standing up for your girl, or being a little protective over her at times can be a major turn on. The situation is different with a model. You need to accept the fact that men will flirt with her, They will ask her out, She will get hit on, It’s going to happen.
Whatever you need to do in your own mind to be okay with this, do it. Because if you can’t, then you just won’t last with her. She needs a man that understands this, and isn’t going to flip out on her every time it happens.
This again comes back to trust. If you trust her, you shouldn’t have to worry about what other men are going to say to her. However if you ever do get very uncomfortable and you see that things are going a little too far. Don’t make a scene, Continue to be yourself, laugh and have fun. When you get home, or in a private area, Talk to her. Explain that was a little much and out of respect for your feelings you would appreciate it if she wouldn’t allow it to happen again.
Be a strong confident, dominant man. Tell her privately. And she will respond.
Create your own boundaries – Set expectations for your relationship. Women of a certain caliber are used to running the show, They are used to getting what they want when they want. And hey thats fine, But your a man. You’re a dominant, Confident, Fucking Ninja. You need to set your expectations and boundaries within the relationship.
It’s simple as being open, and honest. Let her know what you want, Let her know what you expect out of this relationship whatever that may be. It’s a simple conversation that should be had. And by doing this you can get on the same page with her. This isn’t just telling her ” I want this and thats the end of it” Its saying hey listen there are certain things Id like out of this relationship for it to work for me, Is that something you can do. Is it something you can get on board with so we can both be happy and enjoy each others time in t’s entirety.
Follow these five steps and you will have a strong, healthy, happy relationship with the model of your dreams.
Dating women like this is my favorite, When you set it up properly. There are some really amazing women out there and if you follow these steps you’ll get to see them for who they really are. Not just the beautiful face and social status. Whats underneath is usually a really sweet, rare, genuine person just waiting to connect with the right person.
Be her right person.