Law 2 – Creating Charisma

Getting out of your own head can be a tough thing to accomplish but here are some exercises to get you start on your journey to creating your own sense of charisma.

For each of the following exercises, rate your comfort level on a scale of 1-10 (1 being not comfortable at all and 10 being extremely comfortable) And don’t worry if you’re at a 1 now for some of this stuff, thats totally fine, intact its good that means we can improve on it! The more we practice and get used to these types of situations the more comfortable you’ll become and soon enough before you know it you’re gonna be at a 10:

Exercise 1 – Warm Up Exercises

Before you leave your house look at yourself in the mirror, check your posture make sure its dominant. Look yourself in the eyes and tell yourself that you are awesome, You are outgoing, And you are going to fun and playful tonight.  ( This may feel weird/awkward/or stupid to you at first, but trust me its a great exercise to get your mindset in the right place )

Rate your comfort Level _______

Exercise 2 – Walking in with confidence

When you walk into a building, practice coming in exuding confidence. Make sure your posture is right, and make eye contact with everyone who looks your way for a couple of seconds. Always smile, at least a little. A happy positive confidence is what you want.

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Exercise 3 – Walking in with confidence 2

Do all the same things as Walking with confidence 1, but this time, Say hello to any staff that is working or catches your eye, Say hello and shake their hands.

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Exercise 4 – Small talk with the Staff

Talking to the staff is a great way to warm yourself up for talking to total strangers that are guest’s at the same venue. Why? Because they are being paid to be there and be friendly. Their job is essentially to talk to you and be nice, so its a great way to start conversations and get you in the right mindset for approaching other girls. In this first exercise with the staff, you can simply talk about things related to their work or the place you are.

Rate your comfort Level _______

Exercise 5 – Small talk with the Staff Level 2

Same as exercise 5, only this time get more personal with the staff, search out females especially cute ones. And when you talk to them you can start out with regular small talk and questions related to their job however this time get more personal ask them questions where they are from, how long they’ve been here, what their favorite thing to do in this town is. ( Side note – A nice way to leave that conversation if its going well is to say: Well I haven’t really spent much time in this area maybe you could show me around sometime ? If she says ‘ sure ‘ or any variation of ‘ yes ‘ then just say cool put your number I’m my phone and ill text ya. )

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Exercise 6 – The easy approach

The easy approach is specifically sitting close or next to someone you’re attracted to thats at the bar. Even if its a couple of girls or a couple thats fine. Sit next to them, order a drink and casually approach a conversation with them. This is a very non invasive way to talk to people, and the girls sitting at the bar are almost always more interested in meeting new people.

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Exercise 7 – Introductions

This is a big one for creating charisma. Introducing people to each other. Which guess what, shouldn’t be much a problem at this point considering you’ve already met and talked with multiple staff members, and a couple people sitting at the bar. You want to introduce everyone to each other, not only will this take a little pressure off of yourself for carrying the conversation but it gives you huge social value and creates the idea of charisma in their minds because, you’ve created charisma for yourself. You’ve allowed people the opportunity to connect with you and with others they normally wouldn’t which is the very essence of charisma.

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Continue with this until you feel like you’ve reached at least level 8 with each of these exercises and you will be creating charisma and connections wherever you are. Then you can start to move on to some more advanced techniques and start to focus on the girl that you want.